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Written by Susan Rose
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 If you're single and you're reading the articles on this site in the hope they'll help you find your true love, let me offer some inspiration.
I spent many, many years dating the wrong guys. I thought ~ like many women ~ that there just weren't any good guys out there. Of course, I knew that wasn't true because my friends were married to great guys. So why couldn't I find one? After years of disappointing relationships (or rather non-relationships), someone gave me some advice that changed my life. She said that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome. A light bulb went off. If I kept dating the same kind of guy, I was going to keep having the same kind of relationship. They guys weren't the problem; I was. At the time I was in my late 30s. I had a rich and full life, but I wanted a healthy relationship. I wanted to be loved and to love somebody. So I set out to change what I was doing. |
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Last Updated on Tuesday, 30 June 2009 22:43 |
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 Writing "Confessions of a Frog Kisser" changed my life.
How? First, I learned a lot about myself. Stuff that needed to change if I was ever going to find a happy, healthy relationship. Second, I spent a year or so living so far outside my comfort level. I had no idea how vulnerable I'd feel when I published my true story. It was scary and fantastic. I am a more fulfilled person today because I did this! The Book
"Confessions of a Frog Kisser" is the story of Sam Emerson, a fun single chick in her late 30's who just can't seem to find a good guy. She dates fun, outgoing guys, but it never leads anywhere. Finally, sad and depressed, she sits down with a few dozen cookies and a spreadsheet to figure out what she'd doing wrong. The answer amazes her. Because when it's all laid out in black and white, the answer is obvious. Now she just needs to do something about it. |
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